TJ asked:


I have always thought my mom’s neighbor is really goodlooking, but he was married so nothing ever went anywhere. Well, he has been seperated for about 9 months now and has been at my mom’s house more and more lately. She cooks him dinner, he has come over for christmas and things like that. I should mention that my mom works for him (he owns his own excavating company). Anyways, he was having a memorial day cookout the other night and we all stayed up at his house drinking and sitting by the fire. My mom finally went home about 3 am. I decided to stay. Needless to say things started to happen. We didn’t have sex but came very close. He has hinted at actually wanting to date, he doesn’t seem to have a problem with the age difference, but I am not sure how I feel about it yet. It all seems to be going to fast. He is 43 and I am 21. What do I do?